whether you like it or not, you are a part of my life

UY, I think you're right to publicize this and protect yourself and your family. But others, including Anita, might also be in danger.

Her deterioration is picking up steam.  Have you sent this email to UNCC authorities? That might protect everyone who needs protecting.

Posted By Christa on 10 Dec 2009 07:27 PM

UY, I think you're right to publicize this and protect yourself and your family. But others, including Anita, might also be in danger.

Her deterioration is picking up steam.  Have you sent this email to UNCC authorities? That might protect everyone who needs protecting.

I was thinking the same thing - perhaps you should alert the university authorities, UY, if you haven't already done so.

I just saw on JREF that anita has been suspended for a week for repeated breaches of the MA.  She must have been rabid.

I hope this doesn't tip her over the edge.

Anita, call someone in your family for some support

I think it looks clearly like she is planning on cutting contact soon as she has nowhere else to go with this stupid claim. She must have agonised over how to extract herself from the situation without looking even more idiotic.

Then it hit her. She can imply maybe she died! Brilliant! It fulfils all her requirements for drama and attention and being talked about, and it means she gets to withdraw from her unwinnable position.

Of course the one drawback is that she couldn't actually keep away for any length of time, so after a few months she'd bounce back on to the forums with a grand entrance with a new moronic claim.

When oh when will this child grow up.

derardi, do you think it's worthwhile to care about it?

 

Posted By derardi on 17 Dec 2009 03:13 PM
dg,
all i know is what is written in the threads.
any ideas ?

derardi

No, and, at this point, I'm not inclined to extend myself any further than I already have to encourage Anita to seek psychiatric care.

Ashles makes a strong point, as well. Since the IIG test, Anita has run out of options for her attention seeking, since even the folks at the JREF are becoming lackluster in their responses to her insanity. She's unlikely to find another skeptical organization willing to become involved with any further testing. She's harassed UY to the point of having some concern about the safety of himself and his family. She's harassed Lex to the point that most of us have expressed concern about Lex's safety. Anita may very well be having anxiety attacks, but she's also thrown it out there to UY in a quest for further attention-the hope that, if she didn't post for a while, he would contact her out of concern for her wellbeing. She completely disregarded his obvious desire to have no further personal interaction with her. Who further needs the aggravation from her overwhelming arrogance?

 Her family and friends have had the opportunity to view her madness IRL, and apparently aren't willing to do anything, so I fail to see why any of us should put any further time and effort into attempting to help her. It's not that I am without compassion, but, when all is said and done, we all have our own lives. Most of us get spread pretty thin already helping the people in our lives who need us.

We've tried to help Anita. It didn't work. I think we have to chalk this one up to the fact that we can't always save people from themselves.