Anita's Taking Her Shots

Now that Anita has realized that I no longer post at the JREFF, she is taking her shots at me. I'd like to say she's lying, but when someone suffers from so many delusions, it's hard to tell what's a lie and what's yet another delusion.

Anita is a manipulator. She has openly flirted with many people, myself included. I posted publicly on the JREFF very early on that I felt Anita was always trying to manipulate me including by flirting. Her new favorite lie is to say that I have solicited naked pictures from her. She just posted on the JREFF, "PS. I never offered him any pictures. It was he who asked me. And I said no." That's a flat-out lie.

In one of our very first chats on Facebook (December 2008), I did a "reading" of Anita to demonstrate to her just how much seemingly "unknowable" information one can gather from pictures and conversations. I did this to prove to her that her alleged experiences could simply be due to educated guesses rather than some amazing psychic ability. I got many things about her correct, including an educated guess that her father either died or left her family when she was a child.

During this chat, I made a "reading" that if I was right would seem amazing, but if I was wrong would be forgotten. Psychics do this all the time. What I guessed was that she had a birthmark on her left breast. She said she didn't. Then she said something to the effect of, "Well, since you're a skeptic, then I guess I'm going to have to prove it to you!" Naturally, I played along, as any healthy 43 year old man would with an attractive 26 year old woman who lives 3,000 miles away and knows you're happily married with children. She's making it out to be something sinister, which tells you about her integrity.

She has flirted with me in other ways as well including telling me that she just got out of the shower and was naked. She once said, "Do you want to see my boobs if I buy a webcam?" Another time she said, "Alright UncaYimmy. Call me on the phone now. If you do I'll show you my boobs. Eventually." She once asked to see me on my webcam, and I told her I was unshaven, need a haircut, and was not wearing a shirt. She replied, "Alright. I'll let you see me on the webcam when... I'm unshaven, I need a haircut, and when I'm not wearing a shirt." Several times she offered to send me pictures of her (non-nude) with comments like, "you can see how big my boobs are."

She has tried all sorts of other ways to manipulate me. She has "punished" me by de-friending me multiple times on Facebook. She's harassed me by phone despite repeated requests that she never call me (she got my number off my business website). I have had to block her from Skype chats multiple times because she wouldn't stop sending me messages. All of this I have documented publicly and privately to others as it happened because I don't trust this woman in the least.

Her post is just another one of the many lies she has told publicly and privately. Anita will say just about anything to convince people of her delusions or detract from answering the hard questions.